A house that never stays clean and children who have a mind of their own. What can you do to stay calm? You have finally finished the dishes and the kitchen looks tidy, but the surprise is waiting for you in the living room. Your blood pressure is raised so much that you lose control over yourself. The floor you wiped just moments ago is littered with toys, biscuit pieces and the juice spilt all over. Being a mother, the biggest challenge I face is being patient at so many such incidents in everyday life and I believe it’s the same with the majority of us. Let me admit: I FAIL in most of the cases! For us, patience is extremely important since Allah has mentioned it several times in the Qur’an and the rewards for it is really quite tempting. وَاصْبِرُوا ۚ إِنَّ اللَّـهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِينَ and be patient. Indeed, Allah is with the patient. (Qur’an 8:46) إِلَّا الَّذِينَ صَبَرُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ أُولَـٰئِكَ لَهُم مَّغْفِرَةٌ وَأَجْرٌ كَبِيرٌ Except for those who are patient and do righteous deeds; those will have forgiveness and great reward. (Qur’an 11:11) Many more such verses enhance the importance of patience. As mothers it is very clear to us that being patient is not just about controlling our anger to be a good mother, but firstly it is to obey Allah. Here are some smart tactics to save yourself from regrets: So, the next time you see spilt water, cushions on the floor or the sofa being used as a trampoline, take a deep breath and say Alhamdullilah.
A final note: وَالْمَلَائِكَةُ يَدْخُلُونَ عَلَيْهِم مِّن كُلِّ بَابٍ سَلَامٌ عَلَيْكُم بِمَا صَبَرْتُمْ ۚ فَنِعْمَ عُقْبَى الدَّارِ … And the angels will enter upon them from every gate, [saying], “Peace be upon you for what you patiently endured. And excellent is the final home.” (Qur’an 13:23-24) What more do we want? I pray that you and I be able to make an effort to be more patient. Ameen. Asqarini was born in Jakarta, Indonesia. She is a dreamer, poet, writer, volunteer in community projects. She has published many articles, short stories and poetry. She is fluent in English and can understand French. Mother, It took minutes for me to start a letter. And write these words and sentences. I've never been this speechless. I've known beautiful words But when it comes writing you All words seem meaningless It's indescribable For me to show you how much I really love you... Maybe this drop of tears Which distract the black ink of my pen Will show you how tears, Speaks louder than words. Knowing how much love I have for you. Father. I saw deep down. You are like an Angel, with a pure Heart. You cheered me up when I was a little. With the song of a lullaby and the Holy Verses. Taking Good Care of Me. With nothing in return. Only happiness and a smile in my lips, All you ever want God, Give Heaven to every Father in The World, Who has a pure heart as his soul. That has the perfect character. That has the perfect attitude. Placed him the Highest Throne. Jakarta, January 2015.
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